All of us is searching for a purpose in life, Some of us spend their entire life without getting even close to the purpose they are searching for, Some of us are lucky that they actually reached their purpose which makes them satisfied and happy. We change our purpose from time to time cause we are not quite sure, or maybe we will never be sure when it comes to what we really want.
For me, Happiness comes from freedom, or to be more precise, freedom makes us happy. Imagine if you can travel where you want, learn new things such as playing piano, move to new places as much as we want, take risky decisions without worrying about what comes after, be with who we love, and make someone happy by changing their lives or even making them smile. but unfortunately, it is not that simple because we are living in the cash world where you need money to do everything that makes you feel free, So to be free, you have to do many things that make you unhappy. hence, the next time you work hard to be more wealthy, you are actually working to be free from people who control your life. So being financially independent is a huge step to be free in life.
To be free, you don't need many people around you who disturb your freedom. You just need that one person who listens to you without judging you, who believes in you, when no one believes in you, who you can show your vulnerabilities to, without stigma. That person will make you free from concern and anxiety. And what can be better than the last scene from the gambler movie to describe freedom when you say "fu** you" to anyone who makes you miserable, "Fu** you" to your boss who upsets you, "Fu** you" to a person you know who makes you feel shit about yourself, "Fu** you" to a relationship which drains your energy and your freedom. but to live the "fu** you" life you need to have an alternate plan which inevitably includes rolling in dough, endurance, and confidence in your skills and experience. So the next time you are trying to motivate yourself to work laboriously, don't say I do it for money or status in society, Just say I'm pursuing the "Fu** you" life or freedom life. And I'm quite sure that there are a lot of people in your life you want to tell them "Fu** you".
For me, Happiness comes from freedom, or to be more precise, freedom makes us happy. Imagine if you can travel where you want, learn new things such as playing piano, move to new places as much as we want, take risky decisions without worrying about what comes after, be with who we love, and make someone happy by changing their lives or even making them smile. but unfortunately, it is not that simple because we are living in the cash world where you need money to do everything that makes you feel free, So to be free, you have to do many things that make you unhappy. hence, the next time you work hard to be more wealthy, you are actually working to be free from people who control your life. So being financially independent is a huge step to be free in life.
To be free, you don't need many people around you who disturb your freedom. You just need that one person who listens to you without judging you, who believes in you, when no one believes in you, who you can show your vulnerabilities to, without stigma. That person will make you free from concern and anxiety. And what can be better than the last scene from the gambler movie to describe freedom when you say "fu** you" to anyone who makes you miserable, "Fu** you" to your boss who upsets you, "Fu** you" to a person you know who makes you feel shit about yourself, "Fu** you" to a relationship which drains your energy and your freedom. but to live the "fu** you" life you need to have an alternate plan which inevitably includes rolling in dough, endurance, and confidence in your skills and experience. So the next time you are trying to motivate yourself to work laboriously, don't say I do it for money or status in society, Just say I'm pursuing the "Fu** you" life or freedom life. And I'm quite sure that there are a lot of people in your life you want to tell them "Fu** you".
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